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Blah blah blah... personal stuff, you know how it is... though I am leaving in some personal stuff so that you can see how the discussion came about.
Caels says:
I have given up on religion for the most part... I still believe in most of the same things, but I do not follow any of it as much as I did in AIT.
Caels says:
I quit telling people also, because then everyone would always wanna know if I practice magick and cast spells and all kinds of stupid questions that have nothing to do with the religion itself.
Caels says:
All people hear when I say Wicca is witchcraft. Which is not the religion but an aspect of it.
Michelle says:
That's o.k. they think we can move to Utah and my husband can have 5 more wives for his herem.
Caels says:
I remember those rumors... I heard them all the time when I would tell someone about you.
Caels says:
I corrected the issue of course
Caels says:
Now when I talk about you though, which is rare lately, it is always just about the good things I remember. All the fun we used to have and blah blah blah. You were the one that got away, and that is how I express it to others.
Michelle says:
I needed to get away. I would've been of no real good to anyone in that state.
Caels says:
Can you believe that I don't talk to anyone anymore? I don't even play around like I used to... I try and hide in the shadows now and prefer to stay by myself.
Michelle says:
You were frequently in the shadows by yourself. Remember? i would be hiding too though if I were in your shoes with the unit you have.
Caels says:
I tried to talk to people and make friends when I first got here, but they said, and this is exact words, "why do you talk to us? we don't give a [obscenity]."
Michelle says:
Some people are just stupid and rude, but then again you probably already knew that. It's a little better in the civilian world. I can't wait to leave this area and go back to my husband's hometown.
Caels says:
why? I thought you wanted to be away from him
Michelle says:
Not my ex, my current husband. I hate being away from him. The hardest part of vacation was that I couldn't ride horses so he went on all day rides and stuff and I had to stay and go on hikes or whatever else I wanted, so long as my feet stayed on the ground. I don't deserve him really, he's too good for me.
Caels says:
bull [crap]... I have heard those comments before. You said them about me and about him. Just accept what you have and love him with all your heart. That is more than I have.
Michelle says:
It's your negitivity that turns people away from you. I have really tried to be a good friend to you. I'm sorry about
Michelle says:
Alabama, but you knew what you were doing too. I felt deeply for you. I don't know what may have happened, but I know I'm where I'm supposed to be and that my husband is the one and only one for me.
Caels says:
You are a good friend. I did not mean that to be negative. Hell, most of the time I am the only one smiling. I am just a bit sour as of the events of this past week and the fact that I am still sitting here and typing this dumb essay
Caels says:
Besides, I have no reason to look for anyone. I cannot really say that I am lonely now, I got used to it again and it does not bother me.
Caels says:
Maybe once I get a car and start getting around I will look for someone else but until then I am fine
Michelle says:
I understand, but I never want you to think that I intentionally misled you or anything. I was wrong to do what I did, but my feelings were genuine just the same. I would've stayed with you, but what would be the point of starting a relationship with irreconcilable differences
Michelle says:
If there's one thing I learned with my ex, it's what I do and don't want in a spouse and what to look for. I was very sure before I remarried.
Caels says:
I never saw them as such, you just too thick headed. As I recall we actually enjoyed discussing our differences
Michelle says:
Yes, but the most important thing to me is to have my husband and children sealed to me for eternity and that couldn't have happened. When I tried to go without religion, my life was a mess. You saw it. It's who I am and yes, I'm too thick headed to give it up or compromise. Especially when it effects my future children.
Caels says:
So your religion dictates that you can only be sealed in a same religion marriage?
Caels says:
Meaning that any other marriage is worthless?
Michelle says:
No, not worthless, just not eternal.
Caels says:
That seems kind of high and mighty... a trait that religions should not possess
Michelle says:
Civil marriages are until death, then they're over. In the temple, under proper athority, and provided both parties remain worthy, they are for all eternity. We believe that people and families continue to progress after death. It's still committment and work though.
Caels says:
So your religion believes that I cannot be married to you eternally simply because I chose a different path... that seems overly prejudiced especially considering that marriages within my religion are eternal as well, provided the rules set forth by the couple
Caels says:
I don't know... it seems pointless to wonder about it now. Though I admire your dedication to your religion, I cannot accept a religion that denies all others. that is why I left Baptist, because they thought they were the only path to God.
Michelle says:
It has nothing to do with being high and mighty, it has to do with humility and committment. How can 2 people on such opposite paths truly have a unified family? If I had a Wiccan eternal marriage, I'm sure it would not be accepted by wiccans because I am not wiccan, nor do i follow their practices. We believe that good people of all faiths will be in heaven. I personally just feel that
Michelle says:
dual religion marriages are much more difficult. No matter what 2 religions we're talking about.
Michelle says:
If a Catholic man wants a good Catholic family, would it make sense for him to marry a Baptist?
Caels says:
I disagree with that as well because they both believe the other is wrong, so no they cannot. But Wicca is not like that, and from your claims, neither is your religion, so there is where I do not see the problem. Our beliefs are not what is differing, it is the methods in which we praise the Almighty.
Caels says:
And the method does not matter in the end, only that it is done to the best of either's ability
Caels says:
I refuse to believe that the One would allow such segregation among his/her children.
Caels says:
That would show favoritism between religions, and that is what causes holy wars
Michelle says:
yes, but we do believe in different entities as being the Almighty. For unity in the family and home, it would help if both people at least could agree on who the Almighty is.
Caels says:
How is your entity any different than mine?
Caels says:
He/She created the world, created us, loves all of us, and wishes all of us to join Him/Her in the end... An entity is only an idea, that someone thought up and said, "Hey you know what? I'll bet that would be a good idea to pin on our concept of God!" The source behind that entity is the same for all
Michelle says:
It is mostly a personal choice, not a doctrinal choice. There are plenty of Mormons married to people of all different religions. I made my decisions and they make theirs. No one is better than the other, just different and each must decide what's best for them. As for our entities, I believe in God , Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. 3 distinct personages
Caels says:
And you think that is any different than my trinity? The trinity is much much older than any christian religion... Christians adapted most of their beliefs from pagan religion. all they did was give one entity three different names, and divided up aspects of that single entity into those 3.
Caels says:
Same thing with just a different label
Michelle says:
That's where mormonism differs from the rest of the Christian world. God the Father, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost are not three aspects of the same entity, but 3 different beings.
Caels says:
Explain... I am always interested
Michelle says:
Just what I said. God is the head, Christ assisted him in creation and was the savior, the holy spirit is a spirit so he can be in our hearts for comfort, etc. He can be in more than one place because he has no body. We believe that God and Jesus are perfected, glorified, men with physical form.
Caels says:
So in essence, the Spirit is still part of God? though it may be a detachment that dwells within the hearts?
Caels says:
And if you believe that Christ was His only begotten son, then Christ also becomes a part of God.
Michelle says:
Here's a tough one to swallow. There is no beginning to eternity as well as no end. The eternal families are so important because we do actually believe that God has a father as well, who would be his God, and so on and so forth. The 3 personages being one to us means one purpose. If you asked one a question, they would tell you the same thing as the others, though the other 2 may not be there
Michelle says:
A part of God yes, just like each of us, but his own person.
Michelle says:
Eve was created from Adam's ribs, does that mean she was not her own person once created?
Caels says:
hmmm... if God has a God, then who will become our next God? Jesus? or do you already consider him a God
Caels says:
I do not believe that eve was of adam's ribs
Caels says:
BTW... the above question was not meant as an insult or incredulousness... It was a serious question
Michelle says:
God will remain our God for eternity as his God will remain his God for eternity. Just because we continue to progress after death, does not mean those who are above us will stop progessing. It is continuous. No matter how glorified God becomes, his God will continue to progress as well.
Caels says:
You cannot be more perfect than perfect... that statement makes it seem that God is indeed not perfect, and thus causing another dispute
Caels says:
Perfect means flawless, in every way. If God has room to grow and progress then he cannot be perfect
Michelle says:
It has nothing to do with perfection, but progression. Intelligence is the glory of God, and it is always increasing. It has nothing to do with sin or flaw. It is nearly impossible for the human mind to comprehend.
Caels says:
Contrary, the human mind cannot fathom such, since God is believed to know all and know all that will be, thus his intelligence would never increase
Michelle says:
We do believe that God is sinless, but his glory will keep progressing /increasing eternally. Why should it stop.
Caels says:
But you also said that God and his God are perfect... that is why I commented on the perfection thing
Michelle says:
There is nothing saying God can't know more than us.
Caels says:
what?
Caels says:
I said that he does know all
Michelle says:
But just because the human mind is not ready to comprehend something doesn't mean
Michelle says:
God can't.
Caels says:
Or do you mean that God knows only as much as we do, humans as a whole, but then he learns everything as we do, encompassing all knowledge that is known yet not foreseeing the knowledge to come?
Caels says:
I know that may have been a confusing question...
Michelle says:
There are many wonders that we will never understand in this life. That is why we continue to progress after death. No one knows for sure the ins and outs of godhood, I don't believe we're meant to sit around and wonder about it. We need to do the things we already know to do. I believe God knows everything we know and eons more.
Caels says:
Okay, that I can agree with.
Caels says:
Do you mind if I post this discussion in a forum for open debate?
Michelle says:
The point is, that eternal life and progression are keys in my religion. Families are the main focus of our religion.
Caels says:
I find this very enlightening and intriguing
Michelle says:
You may do what you want, but I warn you that many people say horrible things about Mormons because they simply believe it to be a cult. I don't do the debates because they always turn into arguments with people telling me I'm going to hell and I really don't think I'm the one you want to explain these things. Many Mormons won't attempt to explain this to anyone because of the intense ridicule
Michelle says:
and contention that others bring to it. Most people are not ready to hear anything different from the norm.
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Any other ideas on religion out there?
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