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I'm just curious... how many of you have your characters partake in sexual encounters in game?

Who thinks it's disgusting? Who supports it?

I started this topic because I looked in the names folder and heard someone imply that GS sex was pitious?

So, I'd like to hear who else thinks it's wonderful or pitious and why.

As for me? I think it's a wonderful thing. Sex within the confines of GemStone III isn't quite as stimulating as it would be IRL, however, it is more mentally stimulating (as you can imagine whatever you like and role-play out things you'd never do IRL) and more safe. No one can do anything to you without your consent... and if you regret having sex with someone later, you can actually just say it never happened and there's no way to dispute you.

Or, you can just do a role-playing thing to restore your virginity or cleanse your soul... or whatever else.

That's the great thing, nothing here has to be permanent, and when applied to sex, that allows one to explore many avenues they may be curious about, but were afraid to try in real life.

I'm not asking for promiscuous people to come on here and brag about their numbers. Klaive only makes love to one woman...

It's not about numbers, it's about the actual act, its dynamics and what you think of it.

Feedback please?

- The Klaive reg

I look at this in the same light as defecation and urination. Sure, you might get some sort of pleasure from doing the particular activity (especially if you've been constipated, or if after a long night of drinking), but it really has no worthwhile place in the game.

You don't have to get overly graphic to roleplay affection in Gemstone.

Personally, I think most persons that enjoy this type of activity in the game, are those that:
A. Lack the ability to get action in the real world on a regular basis.
B. Are perverts or nymphomaniacs. reg

Z-dawg, Maybe you're right there, but _I_ think only THE Coolest make a topic discussing people that have sex through a text-based game. Too cool for me, Klaive.

rht reg

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Originally posted by Magister:
Personally, I think most persons that enjoy this type of activity in the game, are those that:
A. Lack the ability to get action in the real world on a regular basis.
B. Are perverts or nymphomaniacs.

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Well, I can't speak for MOST that have sex in GS, but I can speak for myself.

In my real life, I am hit on fairly often. If it was my desire, I could "get action" on a very regular basis. However, love, devotion and marriage are the important things to me.

I've met the woman that I will marry someday OOC through GemStone III. The problem is, she lives across country... and even if she didn't, I don't believe in pre-marital physical relations.

This leaves me with a bit of a delimma. You see, like most people, I have urges. I have no religious belief against pornography or online sex, but considering that pornography is not spontanious, nor interactive... I find that it bores me.

But my girlfriend's character and my character are together... so this allows me to actually be with her in mind if not in body... it allows me to share something intimate with her that is impossible otherwise.

And for those out there who are single...

What if someone felt a homosexual/heterosexual urge when they had been the opposite their entire life, but they really didn't want to try it because they knew that they would regret it for the rest of their lives? A texted based role-playing game is the perfect place to experiment with such a thing.

What if someone wished to engage in group sex out of curiosity or because it was a fantasy, but they would never do so in real life out of fear of reputation loss, emotional attachment, disease or impregnation? A text based role-playing game is the perfect place to experiment with such a thing.

What if someone developed an immoral or unhygenic fetish or fantasy and longed to sate these desires without defeating their morals or exposing themselves to become ill. A text based role-playing game is the perfect place to experiment with such a thing.

What if someone wishes to partake in an illegal sexual activity, but not physically. It is a turn on for them, but they want their "victim" to be a willing recipiant (in truth, though they deny it verbally). I for one hate such things as rape and molesting children... and incest isn't my thing either. But some people enjoy the idea of it, and it's alot better that they do it here than IRL, right? Again... A text based role-playing game is the perfect place to experiment with such a thing.

True, some of the above... or even all, may be what you defined as perverts. I have no idea because I've never seen a solid definition of a pervert. But regardless, you must admit that in all these situations, GS Sex was helpful and a positive thing, no?

- The Klaive reg

::Blushes::
Not that i would know about that kinda thing.
::coughs::

When I had my first ever charecter, some guy who will remain nameless was flirting with her. I thought wow a nice guy. ::mutters something about men::
Before I knew it i was in a latch private room.
::Ponders::
He talked to me a little more and started kissing on her. Gee what a really nice guy...
Before long after that he was taking his clothes off. I blushed like crazy.
I had never expected any of it but i was like hey I been to chat rooms before, why not here.
He was a little gross, thank God he lost his internet connection and left the lands.
I walked away from that experience learning a good leason.
If they flirt with you they must want something in return...hehe

As far as role playing sex in Gemstone, it is a fun thing with someone you love.
But I'm a virgin,::snickers:: No men allowed.. only my Juli

So Klaive, Brother I am for it, just as long as it is with the person you love, and if it is something you like to do for more then role playing, so be it. Some people don't got someone in rl to snuggle up with.

Having sex in Gemstone is another way to role play, and fun at that, hehe

reg

Esmee is Gay, and currently engadged to Julianaa. In rl I am not gay, but playing a Esmee has been fun. You would never guess how many guys who know Esmee is gay, actually ask if she would be interested in a threesome... ervs:

reg

-Sterruz's player
reg

And yes, there are perverted GMs that get off on that sort of thing.

The things you learn at gatherings!!!!

reg

There once was a whole site dedicated to posting sexual encounters with commentary on the web.

It was actually quite humerous.

Buckwheet reg

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Originally posted by Buckwheet:
Don't forget those who can make themselves invisible or hidden and since they are old enough not get detected.

There once was a whole site dedicated to posting sexual encounters with commentary on the web.

It was actually quite humerous.

Buckwheet

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I actually know someone who would just sit in the rooms hiding and would wait for things to get hot and heavy, then jump up out of hiding and "You sickos" and run out.
Wondering though who is the sicko?

As for those GM's who like to watch, wooh something interesting to think about, having an audience.
reg

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A text based role-playing game is the perfect place to experiment with such a thing.

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lol, dude get a life... seriously.

Sonic reg

Hiway- just wondering reg

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Originally posted by Hiway:
Hey is talking and replying to your own messages considered gratifying yourself?

Hiway- just wondering

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I'm assuming this question was directed at me, as I saw no other relevant post and I'm the originator of the thread.

Please explain what you mean by that?

- The Klaive reg

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Originally posted by Klaive:
I'm assuming this question was directed at me, as I saw no other relevant post and I'm the originator of the thread.

Please explain what you mean by that?

- The Klaive

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As you assume full responsibility for this thread...

I think it might be one of the dumbest I've read to this date...you need something else to do with your time. reg

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Originally posted by Klaive:
No specifics here because I know there may be little people that read the boards.
- The Klaive

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No specifics here...

Don't come and say that little people read these boards...

You have no idea.
reg

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Originally posted by Klaive:
I'm just curious... how many of you have your characters partake in sexual encounters in game?

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Not I. It's only a game to me, not some 900 number. reg

Hiway reg

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Originally posted by Zanagodly:
I was thinking about RPing nobility and declaring "prima nocta" or whatever it is called, where the king bangs the new bride on her first night of union. :P

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That is absolutely disgusting... ugh.

- The Klaive reg

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(Ever wonder if rubber chickens think people are funny?) reg

Either way I can't think of any guy, while presented with an offer of sex, whether it is in rl, on AIM or in game that would turn it down to try it at least once.

If men could say no so easily, then there would be no adultry, the word cyber sex or even this discussion. This does not exclude us ladies, where some of us fall into the charms of men.

For those who enjoy it for what ever their reasons, let them be.
There are many of us who have met the loves of our lives in GS3 and for whatever reasons can not be together in rl, this sex in GS3 may be a way for them to be closer to each other.
Going around sleeping with people i think is kinda sick, but if it floats your boat, have fun.

Hiway, my AIM is Jinnielove and my Aol is Ssahri297, you will see I am on alot, i assure you i am not Kliave..So shut up all ready!!! reg

Rusval~Homophobe extraudinaire

[This message has been edited by Rusval (edited 12-02-2001).] reg

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Either way I can't think of any guy, while presented with an offer of sex, whether it is in rl, on AIM or in game that would turn it down to try it at least once.

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You obviously never propositioned me for cybersex if you think that.

Sonic reg

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Originally posted by Esmee:
Either way I can't think of any guy, while presented with an offer of sex, whether it is in rl, on AIM or in game that would turn it down to try it at least once.

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Hi.

Gnomad, who has declined all three, and still hasn't done "the naughty" in GS. reg

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If men could say no so easily, then there would be no adultry, the word cyber sex or even this discussion. This does not exclude us ladies, where some of us fall into the charms of men.
---Esmee

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Perhaps a little self-control is in order, no?

Aerienne reg

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Originally posted by Alfador:
You obviously never propositioned me for cybersex if you think that.

Sonic

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Alfie!

Uh huhuhhuh huhuh huhuh

Wanna cyber with me!?

Buckwheet reg

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Originally posted by Buckwheet:

Alfie! Uh huhuhhuh huhuh huhuh

Wanna cyber with me!? Buckwheet[/B]

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Gads, I need to change perfumes... I can't even get asked to go hunting!

Summer

[This message has been edited by Summerlyn (edited 12-03-2001).] reg

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Originally posted by Alfador:
You obviously never propositioned me for cybersex if you think that.

Sonic

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You see i said i can't think of any guy that wouldn't turn it down. Obviously i don't know you, If i did i could say i can think of one that would turn it down.
All that put aside, Esmee would never ask since she thinks men are demons and wouldn't touch one let alone proposition one.
reg

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Everyone should keep in mind that staff can see, and will see, everything you do...even in locked, private rooms..

And yes, there are perverted GMs that get off on that sort of thing.

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Ya, but think of it this way, Klaive wants to be a GM.. he'll fit in perfectly. This could get his foot in the door.

[This message has been edited by Cassioppia (edited 12-03-2001).] reg

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Originally posted by Esmee:
You see i said i can't think of any guy that wouldn't turn it down. Obviously i don't know you, If i did i could say i can think of one that would turn it down.

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Nuh uh. No getting out of it that easily..

Don't assume that everyone else in the world behaves the same way your friends do.

reg

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Originally posted by Rhain:

Everyone should keep in mind that staff can see, and will see, everything you do...even in locked, private rooms..

And yes, there are perverted GMs that get off on that sort of thing.

The things you learn at gatherings!!!!

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Yeah I know they can... and while most may see that as a deterrant, I sorta like the idea.

- The Klaive

reg

LOL!!!

reg

>>If men could say no so easily, then there would be no adultry, the word cyber sex or even this discussion. This does not exclude us ladies, where some of us fall into the charms of men. - Esmee

I'd turn ya down in a heart beat because I'm faithful.

The reason why you don't know anyone that would turn you down is because they're probably a 13 year old trying to pretend they're 20+. That, or they're single so they have no rules. ;)

The reason why adultry exists in the world is because many wo/men are dogs, but the main reason is that their love life with their spouse isn't so great. Over time, you've done everything imaginable with each other so you want some spice so they go find someone to do it with elsewhere. It's one of the reasons why the swinger society exists. ;)

- Pudgee
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And if the GMs like watching, kudos for them. Hope they enjoy the show as much as the couple involved does.

R
reg

I heard you can get a brand new automobile...

So look at the profit too!

Hiway reg

Oh, baby, type harder.. ehh.. that's the stuff, right there inbetween the L and the G ..oooo.

I swear, when someone types the word "Labia" I nearly drench my drawers. reg

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Originally posted by Desharei:
I don't consider it much different from reading (looking at?) a porn magazine or website. Sometimes you just want a little variety in your life, but don't wanna take it "real" because of the physical and emotional risks involved.

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I don't know...if I caught my boyfriend having cybersex with someone I'd be pretty upset. I'd probably ram the keyboard up his butt.

reg

reg

Haha, you just might be right...but like i said, Esmee thinks men are demons and would never ask.
I am are sure there are 13 year olds pretending to be 20. There are also many my age (30) who are single and who have gemstone sex. Oh and some are married who sneak behind their spouces back, (no names)which is rather sad. So even the ones with rules tend to break them.
You also forget that this is a role playing game and rl stuff like, "What's your age? Or are you really a guy or girl?" kinda thing has no place in role playing.
Though i think that if one is going to be that close to their GS spouse that they would at least know a little something about the person behind the charecter.
The idea that some of us might be giving a 13 year old an education is sex is sickening.
reg

Somehow a keyboard and typing just doesn't seem to warrant any sort of arousal.

Anything else I would say would be flaming.

Hiway reg

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Originally posted by Hiway:
Cybersex....

Somehow a keyboard and typing just doesn't seem to warrant any sort of arousal.

Anything else I would say would be flaming.

Hiway

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You'd be amazed how creative some people get while cybering. :P

I've done it a couple of times. ::shrugs:: No big deal. I've gotten a couple of ideas to use in real life, but that's about it. ::whistles::

However the concept of "needing" it? Nope, that's a foreign idea to me. reg

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Originally posted by Hiway:
Cybersex....

Somehow a keyboard and typing just doesn't seem to warrant any sort of arousal.

Anything else I would say would be flaming.

Hiway

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Obviously you just don't "get" it, Hiway. I'm not saying you're odd because you don't like it... but you're completely missing the point of why people do it.

Typing on a keyboard isn't sexy. Neither is staring at a monitor.

GS Sex is "sexy" for the same reason that erotic poetry is "sexy". It arouses the body through the mind. Indirectly, not directly. It's the words that you read and the mental images they give you.

It obviously takes someone with a good imagination to derive pleasure from GS Sex... it's not for everyone. Those who need to be touched to be pleased won't find their satisfaction here. And that's perfectly fine... just differences of people. ::shrugs::

- The Klaive

reg

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Originally posted by Klaive:
Obviously you just don't "get" it, Hiway. I'm not saying you're odd because you don't like it... but you're completely missing the point of why people do it.

Typing on a keyboard isn't sexy. Neither is staring at a monitor.

GS Sex is "sexy" for the same reason that erotic poetry is "sexy". It arouses the body through the mind. Indirectly, not directly. It's the words that you read and the mental images they give you.

It obviously takes someone with a good imagination to derive pleasure from GS Sex... it's not for everyone. Those who need to be touched to be pleased won't find their satisfaction here. And that's perfectly fine... just differences of people. ::shrugs::

- The Klaive

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I can hookup you with a girl that'd be a way better date than a fictional rennaisance feeling that you get from looking at computer words. reg

My point is why? You can express so much more in person and no I don't mean visual or touch. Just seems pathetic to me when the real thing is availible. You can act out or even verbalize exactly the same thing instead of typing. You can fantasy roleplay via voice or even face to face.

I find it simply hilarious and yes I do get it, so to speak. I just think there are much better ways. I find it pathetic online. That is my opinion.

I have seen Gemstone love and it is pathetic to me also. I am not alone in this opinion.

I am cooler than you also Klaive. My wife is also hotter than your girlfriend.

Hiway-wondering if the humor will be obvious enough reg

Klaive,

Interesting thread you have going here. Of course, it incites the imagination just to think of the possibilities.

This is a role-playing environment, yes? How did people have sex and with whom back in the times we so try to emulate?

reg

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Originally posted by Orobini:

It obviously takes someone with a good imagination to derive pleasure from GS Sex... it's not for everyone.

Klaive,

Interesting thread you have going here. Of course, it incites the imagination just to think of the possibilities.

This is a role-playing environment, yes? How did people have sex and with whom back in the times we so try to emulate?

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Hehe they dragged the women around by the hair first, then climbed on top...oh wait that's cave men. Could be some men in GS3..shrug
Perhaps it was wenches, you know the Lord of the manor took a few woman to bed from the village and married the one he loved, but still kept a few wenches on the side. Remind you of any guy you know ladies?

I do hope this isn't the kind of sex we are emulating in GS3.

I have noticed alot of people on this board who think there is no sence in having sex in GS3, noone ever said there was.
To me it is role playing and nothing more and takes a good imagination.
There is the exception, if it is with your rl partner who lives, say a few 100 miles from you cause you met in GS3. To those people it is the closest they can be together.
Besides what's all those latched rooms for anyways, i heard that GS3 put them there for that reason. Must not be that foreign of an idea if Simutronics thought it was needed.
Especially Silvergate.

reg

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Originally posted by Moken:
I feel that gemstones advertised as a pg or g game and it just shouldnt happen. Too large of a risk your talking to an 8 year old kid, who will be traumatized, im against the whole cyber thing and all for the real thing

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teaching an 8 year old about sex is not something anyone should be doing but most 8 year olds see it on tv and learn it from their friends. Which is rather sad.

reg

Either way I can't think of any guy, while presented with an offer of sex, whether it is in rl, on AIM or in game that would turn it down to try it at least once.

If men could say no so easily, then there would be no adultry, the word cyber sex or even this discussion. This does not exclude us ladies, where some of us fall into the charms of men.

Man hater or what?

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[This message has been edited by SG (edited 12-06-2001).] reg

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Originally posted by SG:
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Either way I can't think of any guy, while presented with an offer of sex, whether it is in rl, on AIM or in game that would turn it down to try it at least once.

If men could say no so easily, then there would be no adultry, the word cyber sex or even this discussion. This does not exclude us ladies, where some of us fall into the charms of men.

Man hater or what?

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Absolutly!!!!
There are though a few good ones out there, most are in Esmee's family or are really close friends. reg

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Originally posted by SG:

Either way I can't think of any guy, while presented with an offer of sex, whether it is in rl, on AIM or in game that would turn it down to try it at least once.

If men could say no so easily, then there would be no adultry, the word cyber sex or even this discussion. This does not exclude us ladies, where some of us fall into the charms of men.

Man hater or what?

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and...

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Originally posted by Esmee:
Absolutly!!!!
There are though a few good ones out there, most are in Esmee's family or are really close friends.

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I was gonna post a serious response to these posts, but I couldn't stop laughing...

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I got no dukes. reg

just giving my opinion reg

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Originally posted by Emislity:
I'm not saying sex in gemstone is okay, but I'm not saying it's not either.. I've done it and many of you whom say you havent, probably have..

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I am not a liar. Do not imply that I am, especially if you don't know me and have no idea who the hell I am.

You disgust me. reg

I'd tend to think she's got a point, though... I'm sure there is a sizeable amount of people who say they don't engage in GS sex but actually do. I don't really know why this is, but I'm sure some are just embarassed by it and don't want anyone else knowing. ::shrugs:: Just my two cents.

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Because I know what can be seen and the type of people doing the seeing.

I have seen GM's first hand look at people in game in locked rooms without a reason, just to show they could while sipping a cocktail to brag about it. I have seen GM's first hand (that means been in the same room watching them type on a keyboard and looking at the same monitor they are looking at) make items for people.

I have met some GM's who I just don't want to be able to see that sort of thing. I actually have no "need" for that sort of roleplay in gemstone. I never have in any sort of game before in the past and do not forsee the need in the future.

I simply do not see the entertainment value. I play games to have fun. I don't see any redeemable fun factor in typing cybersex. I personally find it funny and pathetic. Yes, that is my opinion.

Hiway reg

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Originally posted by Hiway:
I will swear on a bible that I have never even remotely done anything of the sort [cybersex] in Gemstone. Why?

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I, too, will swear on a bible that I have never even remotely done anything of the sort [cybersex] in Gemstone. Why?

Because I'm not a christian and don't care about the bible.

See how easily I lied? If you want to validate yourself beyond a shadow of a doubt for us, Hiway, set up your webcam to do a round-the-clock broadcast of your computer screen so we can watch first hand what you do.

Short of that, I don't believe you.

- The Klaive reg

In any case, I think people who have a personal problem or hostility toward people who *discuss* having cybersex should get a grip and a layer of skin.

No one is ordering any of you to engage in cybersex, people. It's a freaking discussion ABOUT it for crying out loud. If the topic is so all-fired offensive to you, stop reading it. DOH

R
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Originally posted by Desharei:
No one is ordering any of you to engage in cybersex, people. It's a freaking discussion ABOUT it for crying out loud. If the topic is so all-fired offensive to you, stop reading it.

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I don't care about being told I have cybersex, I care about being called a liar. reg

I am not up in arms about the topic, just clarifying my opinion about the subject.

And for Klaive not believing me, the phrase who cares comes to mind.

Hiway - Christian reg

Aerienne reg

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Originally posted by Gnomad:
I don't care about being told I have cybersex, I care about being called a liar.

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By the way, she say "many" people, not "all" people, and then she said "probably" not "definitely". Let's try not to read between the lines of what people are trying to convey and assume (we all know what that means) that she means something else.

Like I heard tell once, "You wouldn't try to act so innocent unless you were guilty." (That last line wasn't directed specifically at you Gnomad, just people who get that threatened by this discussion.) reg

Emislity....

Just stating my opinions.... reg

Well now, I got a dozen or more private, some not private thoughts from all kinds of men willingly wanting to be tortured.

Little did they know when I said torture I meant more on the lines of ripping arms and legs off, but naturally these men assumed I meant something different.
Haha was kinda funny, betcha they all cyber.
None in fact were interested in the kinda torture i had in mind..darn reg

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Originally posted by Zanagodly:
Zanagan is a 138 trained virgin

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Poor thing. reg

That's one of the great things about GS... You can do things that you can't do in real life. For one, if you wish, you can RP that your character is completely untouched again. You can use magic to give them a new body, new mind, even new spirit.

There are limitless options and no boundries. And since this RP is conducted mostly in private, GMs can't say anything if you step outside the boundries of Elanthia! You could RP Koar coming to you and restoring your virginity if you felt like it. When you told the story later, it might be a bit far-fetched sounding...

But it's just as valid as anything else.

I knew some people who RP virgins and lose their virginity on an almost daily basis. I remember asking a couple of them if they were just pretending to be and they replied that they weren't, they simply had purity restoring magic that made their bodies and minds as they were before they had sex.

Anyone out there do anything like that?

I for one am obsessed with virginity, and if Klaive couldn't have restored his, he would've never moved on to another as he sees that as impure.

- The Klaive reg

Personally your 'born again virgin whenever I feel like it' sounds a little too convenient. But that's just me. reg

Bianca

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Bianca

I think that most everyone would wish that themselves...but I'm quite sure that's another issue..

<Klaive was a virgin, got married, lost his virginity, got divorced, regained his virginity by bathing in the Voln pool>

well why even bother, just tell your mate you are a virgin, not like they'd really know the difference anyways, i'm sure there are many out there who say oh i've never done it, but have so in their minds they believe they are virgins anyways.

Emislity

Just stating my opinion... reg

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Originally posted by Emislity:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Bianca:
[B]Man, I wish that Voln pool exists in RL. ::snickers::

Bianca

I think that most everyone would wish that themselves...but I'm quite sure that's another issue..

<Klaive was a virgin, got married, lost his virginity, got divorced, regained his virginity by bathing in the Voln pool>

well why even bother, just tell your mate you are a virgin, not like they'd really know the difference anyways, i'm sure there are many out there who say oh i've never done it, but have so in their minds they believe they are virgins anyways.

Emislity

Just stating my opinion...

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Doesn't work for me. In game, it would be a lie. And lying about virginity doesn't make things any better. But RPing that in actuality and in truth it had really been restored, makes things acceptible for me again.

For me to be happy in a relationship IC or OOC, both my partner and I must be virgins. It is just something that I insist upon. I can't be happy otherwise... the knowledge that one of us isn't a virgin would eat away at me until I had a breakdown.

That's why I used the Voln pool. Wiped the slate clean. IRL it isn't so easy of course... that's why I'm waiting until my wedding night.

And for those of you that can't comprehend why virginity is so important to me. That's fine. You don't have to understand. I don't hate or dislike any of you because you don't care about virginity. It's simply a personal preference. I link virginity with purity and innocence. And those are the qualities that I find attractive in women.

I also like the idea of two people having their first time together and never being with anyone else ever again. But again, it's just me.

- The Klaive reg

Emislity

Just stating my opinions...
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Thanks,

R
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Originally posted by Desharei:
Emlisity, Klaive, this folder is not for discussing your personal lives. Try "Off Topic" for that. This folder is for Roleplaying. Please stick with that here.

Thanks,

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Actually, I was talking about RPing. I happened to throw a RL comment in, but I believe the majority of my post was about RPing. Emislity, however, has obviously decided that she'd like to talk about other things. My previous post in no way targeted her, and I simply wished to explain why I felt that the RP I chose for Klaive was important.

Anyway, I just felt that I needed to defend myself as my name was included in your reminder... please proceed with the topic everyone.

- The Klaive
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Seems to fit in this topic.

Ylena
(purity is over-rated) reg

So...You would pass up your 'soulmate' (if you believe in that sort of thing) because shes not a virgin?

This reminds me of those damn personal ads where people say:
ISO: SWF 5'10" 120 lb, no baggage, etc.

You really cannot limit love in this sense...

Sorry, had to respond. I understand your personal preference here -- But what if you don't find that 'special someone' until you are 35 or older? Your chances of finding a like-aged virgin do decrease quite a bit...

Leslie

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Smell that shoe! reg

I'm sure of it.

Yes, that's what she meant.

Not that I'm 35!

yah.

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Originally posted by That Damn Katt:
>>For me to be happy in a relationship IC or OOC, both my partner and I must be virgins. It is just something that I insist upon. I can't be happy otherwise... the knowledge that one of us isn't a virgin would eat away at me until I had a breakdown.

So...You would pass up your 'soulmate' (if you believe in that sort of thing) because shes not a virgin?

This reminds me of those damn personal ads where people say:
ISO: SWF 5'10" 120 lb, no baggage, etc.

You really cannot limit love in this sense...

Sorry, had to respond. I understand your personal preference here -- But what if you don't find that 'special someone' until you are 35 or older? Your chances of finding a like-aged virgin do decrease quite a bit...

Leslie

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If she was my soulmate, she would be a virgin. Because she'd want to wait until her wedding night.

Not a virgin? Not my soulmate.

- The Klaive reg

But then, you are still young and idealistic. Which isn't a bad thing, and I think it's pretty admirable to wait until you find the right person. I just hope that it works out for you. Because honestly, sometimes life throws you a curve and people mature and change. Are you going to remain single thereafter because you are no longer a virgin?

Aerienne

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Originally posted by Aerienne:
But then, you are still young and idealistic. Which isn't a bad thing, and I think it's pretty admirable to wait until you find the right person. I just hope that it works out for you. Because honestly, sometimes life throws you a curve and people mature and change. Are you going to remain single thereafter because you are no longer a virgin?

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Yes. Being single wouldn't be so bad. I love myself. And though being with your soulmate is one of the greatest things in this life... if I am denied that, then I will make it by myself.

- The Klaive reg

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Originally posted by Fralcon:
You would have to love yourself, guessing two or three times a day?

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Sex... it's always about sex isn't it?

While I would enjoy sex with my soulmate, if I was forced to be without them, I would simply remain sexually dormant. Sex is completely unimportant to me unless it's an expression of love between two people who have never shared their bodies with anyone else. So no, I would not *physically* love myself.

- The Klaive reg

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Originally posted by Klaive:
Sex... it's always about sex isn't it?

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I just thought this quote was funny coming from the one who started this topic in the first place. :P reg

Thank you.

Roberta
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